Friday, July 2, 2010

Happy 23rd Monthsary ;)

Yup, we are on our 23rd month mark and eternity to look forward to. Almost always, when its 2nd day of the month (when we plan something special to remember why - Dennis and myself - fell for each other), something bad happens that really puts our love for each other to the test. And my pride always make it worst. My feeling the "need-to-be-right" all the time overshadows reason. I am quite fortunate though to have Dennis who would shake me out from my selfish/prideful state to being selfless/humble. I'm not quite sure why I deserve him... I don't think I do. God knows that I need him to polish a lot of my 'rough edges'. Dennis always bear my imperfections with patience. We settled our "issue" the very same day.

Anyways, day after we settled our issue, I forgot that its' our 23rd month mark so I didn't really plan/prepare anything. Dennis, on the other hand, came home yesterday from work around 7:30pm - BEAMING! I can tell the excitement all over his face. I was puzzled. He then greeted me, "Happy Anniversary, Hon. I have something for you." Of course, being the Filipina that I am, flowers and chocolates are conventional 'offering' for this auspicious occasion - so I got excited of course. He pulled out the anniversary gift... and I WOULD HAVE NEVER GUESSED IT EVEN IF I WAS GIVEN A MILLION CHANCES. A bulb keychain! I laughed so hard that I offended my poor husband. I have to gather myself fast and redeem myself by thanking him for his thoughtfulness and apologize for my rudeness.

I was trying very hard not to laugh when he was adding the special feature of the keychain. You can push the button and it lights up! WOW, right?! So I said, "Wow" as sincerely as I wanted it to sound. He didn't buy it. He looked at me with those cute puppy eyes and said, "You don't like it. You're laughing at my gift" (Dennis - frowning). This time, I felt bad for making him feel bad. So I made up something to make the gift more meaningful by adding, "Oh, I think I know why you bought this for us, it means - I light up your life ;)" And Dennis is happy again. Just like that... and we played with our key chain (yup, he bought two) for 5 minutes and then ate our dinner.

Ok. With that said... I thought key chains are only "pasalubong". Its' what you buy for friends when you go to places. hehehe! But today, I learned from my husband the true meaning of "it's the thought that counts". Dennis' simple-mindedness subdues my complexities. He's the perfect ingredient for me;)Guys out there... key chain might work for your other half...(warning) but not always ;)

3 comments:

  1. Sheilla May Domingo: My Brave Little One (in Malaysia), i am laughing so hard even at this very moment i am typing this message about the "Key Chain" thing that you wrote about in your personal blogspot i couldnt get over my gosh! Oh my! i would even be smiling when i go to sleep tonight and might continue laughing in my dreams ... oh and to Dennis! way to go my ... See Morebrother (i love you ), and to One...for your light bulb key chain, do not under estimate its simplicity... its a safety tool..in case of brownouts, or when you go to movie house and may I add light bulb key chain is way better than forgeting your anniversary! Happy Anniversary to you both...next time you get into something confusing in your relationship...light your light bulb key chain to remind you how you light up each other's life since day 1 you fell in love. (my eldest sister's commenton facebook)

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  2. Aleth Domingo Reyes: (My sister's comment)
    I actually like the lightbulb keychain.. it is sooo cute! I suddenly wish that Albert would surprise me with something like that.. for me the sweetest gifts are "unexpected" .. with Albert kasi i can almost always guess what he would give me.. flowers and chocolates.. well, partly my fault because i told him i like flowers and chocolates.. wonder if i tell him i like a lightbulb keychain next time..?hmmmm..

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  3. Jojie Datinggaling: (My sister-in-law)
    so sweet ate.. i hope that krey will surprise me one time coz he never give me gifts or surprise me even once.. huhu fortunately I have his ATM card and his full salary every pay day that I can buy gifts for myself..hehehe miss you!!

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